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Hello guys! How have
you all been? This week I was a little stressed out from school (I'm not use to having lots of tests in one day!), I've
started thinking about my trip to Europe in the spring (I'm going to be
talking about Europe a lot. I'm just so excited!) and the weather has
been much cooler and more fall-like. :)
Honestly,
I've been a bit nervous to post this. I would've posted it on Sunday,
but this is something I'm not quite comfortable with yet. I always worry
about sharing my views on life rather than beauty because I worry
people might get the wrong impression of me; nonetheless, I decided to
do it, because you never know what will come out of something until you
try it.
Over
the summer, I mostly hung out with my family and close friends. I was
hardly ever in a situation where I had much interaction with other
people. Now that we're back in the swing of school, I've been thinking a
lot about people.
Everyday
when I'm on the bus, there is a guy who, if you saw him, your first
thought might be, "hmm...he looks kind of sketchy." That's what I
thought at first. I noticed that he swore a fair amount, and he was kind
of loud and a little intimidating. Then one day, when he was getting of
the bus, I noticed he smiled at the driver and said, "have a nice day!"
To be honest, I was shocked. I didn't think he would be the kind of
person who would do that.
That
got me thinking that we (myself included, I am in no way 'perfect')
judge and label people we don't know far too much. I've been told all my life not
to judge people, because you never know what they might be going
through, and I feel like I've never really take that seriously. We often
don't even notice we are making assumptions about the people we see at
school or at the mall or at work. We usually make bad labels
about people we don't even know instead of the good ones. I hate it
when I do that.
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Now
I know it's waaaaaaaaaay past New Years, but I want to make a
resolution to myself, and maybe you'll want to do this, too. My resolution is (I've been trying very hard to do this for a little while now) to not think, "oh look at her, she looks like
she's trying way to hard to be cool" Instead, I've been trying to not
make any assumptions, and if I do, I try to make good ones. We should
try to find the good in people, because I know that everybody has some. And honestly, you never truly know what is going on with them.
In summary, I want to try my hardest not to judge a book by its cover. :)
I
really hope you guys liked this post and found it at least a little bit
helpful. Let me know if you like these types of posts. You can email me
(I have my email in a tab above), or you can comment below. Hope you all have a fantastic week!